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This is a space for curiosity, contemplation, and the kind of deep dives that nourish the soul

Here, you’ll find reflections and resources on various topics, from metaphysical insight and spiritual practice to personal growth and, sometimes, the political moments that shape how we live and heal. Each topic has its page, so you can explore what calls to you without getting lost in the scroll.

I write about what moves me: ideas that spark thought, stir emotion, or deserve more attention. And if you’d like to see something covered but don’t find it here, I’d love to hear from you. Just email me your ideas, and I’ll consider exploring them in a future post.
Let’s keep the conversation going.
If you want to know more about me, there is an About section at the bottom of the page. 

6/16/2025 0 Comments

How Healing Makes You a Better Psychic, Medium, or Tarot Reader

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here is a quiet truth I have learned through years of sitting with Spirit and people’s stories:
The more I heal, the better I read.
Clarity does not come from more certifications, more tools, or more followers. It comes from the deep, ongoing work of facing yourself with compassion, releasing what no longer serves you, and learning to trust the stillness within.
Whether you are just starting out, or you have been offering readings for years, there is a point where your growth plateaus. Not because you are not gifted, but because unhealed wounds begin to cloud the channel.
We do not always notice it. It can show up as self-doubt, hesitation, fuzzy impressions, projection onto clients, or a sense of fatigue after a reading. We might try to push through it, hoping that one more deck, or one more course, will help.
But real expansion does not come from adding more.
It comes from clearing what is in the way.

The Healing Behind the Gift
​You cannot separate your intuitive gifts from the person you are. Your energy, your emotions, your beliefs, and your nervous system are part of the message you are delivering.
If you have experienced trauma, and most of us have, it leaves traces. It shapes how you interpret what you receive, how you connect with others, and whether you trust yourself to speak what you know.
When we carry emotional weight that has not been addressed, we might unconsciously soften the truth, second-guess our instincts, or absorb energy that was never ours to carry.
But when we begin to heal, something beautiful happens:
  • Our readings become clearer and more accurate
  • We stop apologizing for what we know
  • We hold space with more steadiness and less effort
  • We trust our own voice, and let it rise
  • We begin to feel the presence of Spirit in a deeper, quieter way

You Are Not Falling Behind, You Are Being Invited In
​If you have felt disconnected, unsure, or like your intuitive work has lost its spark, you are not broken. You are being invited to deepen. This is the part many people skip, but it is also the part that brings the most transformation.
Healing is not separate from psychic development.
It is the foundation that allows your gifts to flourish.
I say this as someone who continues to do this work for myself.
I am a psychic, a medium, and a Tarot reader, and I still grow more accurate, more aligned, and more connected each time I release something that no longer belongs in my field. The more I heal, the better I serve.

How I Healed Myself
​Before I ever offered this work to others, I did it for myself.
I searched for healing through every doorway I could find, bioenergetics, rebirthing, primal scream therapy, and countless other paths that promised release. Each gave me a piece of the puzzle, but nothing truly helped me feel integrated and free.
Then I found Neuro Emotional Release. It was the first time I felt my body let go of what my mind had been carrying for years. Not through force, or rehashing stories, but through presence, trust, and a method that spoke directly to the nervous system.
That experience changed me. So much so, that in addition to all of the professional development I continue to do as a psychic, medium, and Tarot reader, I chose to become certified in NER. Because I knew I had to offer what actually works.
I share this not to prove anything, but to say, I have been there, unsure, overwhelmed, and aching for a breakthrough. And I want you to know there is a way through, and you do not have to walk it alone.

​This Is Why I Offer Neuro Emotional Release
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I work with intuitives, empaths, and seekers who are ready to clear the emotional patterns that limit their clarity and confidence. Some are professionals. Others are just beginning to trust their gifts. Many are sensitive souls who want to feel more at home in their own lives, their bodies, and their knowing.
I work gently, respectfully, and without judgment, using a method called Neuro Emotional Release. It is not about revisiting trauma or telling the story again. It is about listening to the body, releasing what is stuck, and allowing your energy to return to flow.
You do not need to push harder or pretend you are fine. You need a space that is steady enough to hold you, and subtle enough to remind you of what you already know.
Sessions are available both online and in person.
​Learn more about NER here by going to the NER page on this website. Email me or text me if you want to explore this revolutionary method of healing.
📧 Email: [email protected]
📲 Text: 250 460 7900
You belong in your own life. Your gifts deserve clarity.
Healing is not where your path ends, it is where it deepens.


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    I’ve been on the consciousness trail since the mid-80s — back when healing work was still underground and spiritual growth didn’t have hashtags. My journey began in British Columbia, guided by traditional Elders and Knowledge Keepers whose teachings continue to shape everything I do. In those early years, I immersed myself in practices like Rebirthing, Primal Scream Therapy, and Bio-Energetics — long before Reiki and energy healing became mainstream. Each step peeled back layers, revealing not just what needed healing in myself, but what I was here to offer others. Later, in Tucson, Arizona, I became a Certified Clinical Hypnotherapist, Meditation Teacher, and Neuro Emotional Release (NER) practitioner. I also worked extensively with individuals transitioning out of sober living, helping them re-enter society with self-trust and emotional resilience. This blog is where I share what I’ve learned — and what I’m still learning. You’ll find thoughts on metaphysics, spiritual growth, emotional healing, and sometimes even politics — because everything is connected when it comes to transformation. I write from experience, from curiosity, and from a place of service. If there’s a topic you’re longing to explore, drop me a note. This space is for all of us walking the path.

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